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@article{190192,
        author = {Mr A RAMAKRISHNAN},
        title = {From Heartbreak to Healing: Young Adults’ Romantic Rejection and Relationship Growth—A Heart-Shattering Moment},
        journal = {International Journal of Innovative Research in Technology},
        year = {2026},
        volume = {12},
        number = {8},
        pages = {1569-1574},
        issn = {2349-6002},
        url = {https://ijirt.org/article?manuscript=190192},
        abstract = {In India’s rapidly shifting dating landscape, young adults increasingly encounter repeated romantic rejections that provoke deep Emotional chaos, yet culturally grounded recovery narratives remain underexplored. This qualitative study amplifies authentic voices from 12 Indian youth (aged 22–32; balanced by gender) who experienced three or more failed love relationships. Using Braun and Clarke’s thematic analysis of semi-structured interviews, four salient themes emerged. First, participants described the raw “heart-shattering instant,” where physical paralysis intertwined with self-doubt. Second, a relentless pursuit of love was sustained by optimism but collided with the dread of isolation. Third, gendered healing trajectories surfaced: men often withdrew into isolation or work, while women sought solace in family bonds, accompanied by endless mental replay. Finally, love’s paradox revealed sharper emotional wisdom alongside fractured trust. Collectivist family structures intensified suffering but simultaneously fostered resilience through community reframing. The study introduces the “Tamil Heartbreak Cycle,” a novel pattern of serial romantic pursuit amid stigma, and proposes the “4R Tamil Recovery Framework” (Reflect–Relabel–Reconnect–Rise) as a culturally sensitive counselling tool. By bridging a critical gap in Indian psychology, this research underscores the need for localized therapeutic approaches that move beyond Western-centric models and honor indigenous pathways of healing.},
        keywords = {Love heartbreak, romantic rejection, Indian youth narratives, gender healing paths, thematic insights, emotional rebirth, Tamil recovery framework},
        month = {January},
        }